Are my boundaries strong?
What will it take to honor my space (mental, physical, emotional) and allow others to stay in their own space?
Do I have a healthy understanding of what is and is not ok for me?
I no longer need to allow unwelcome influences into my space.
I can now honor my boundaries by refusing to cross them.
Imagine yourself in a protective bubble that completely covers your whole body, mind, and spirit. Imagine nurturing and healing light flowing into that protected space.
On Guard blend, Ginger, Clove, Jasmine
On Guard blend- Oil of Protection:
This blend of oils is generally used to shield individuals from harmful threats. Its protective properties, however, extend beyond the physical level by aiding individuals in warding off energetic parasites, domineering personalities, and other negative influences. On Guard strengthens the immunesystem, which governs the ability to defend against attacks from both physical and negative energies.
Negative emotions: Attacked, unprotected, vulnerable, controlled, manipulated, susceptible to peer pressure
Positive properties: Healthy boundaries, protected, capable, integrity, independent, reinforced, strengthened
Ginger- Oil of Empowerment:
Ginger holds no reservations.This oil has a purpose and will fulfill it. Ginger powerfully persuades individuals to be fully present and participate in life. Ginger addresses deep patterns of victim mentality, which is evidenced by feelings of powerlessness, believing everything is outside ones control, refusing to take responsibility for life, or blaming life circumstances on other people or outside influences. it empowers individuals in taking complete responsibility for their lifecircumstances, and infuses a warriorlike mentality based on integrity, personalresponsibility, and individual choice.
Negative emotions: Victim mentality, powerless, unwilling to take responsibility,defeated, not present, stuck
Positive properties: Empowered, committed, capable, purposeful, accountable.
Clove- Oil of Boundaries:
Clove assists individuals of letting go of patterns of self-betrayal and codependency by reconnecting them with their personal integrity. It builds up appropriate boundaries and defenses. Clove gives pushovers the courage to say no. It can assist when there has been a history of weakened boundariescaused by mistreatment, exploitation, repeated traumatic or compromising experiences. Clove can assist by restoring sense of self and helping individuals regain the strength needed to advocate for their right to self-containment and protection.
Negative emotions: Victim mentality, defeated, dominated, enslaved, fear of rejection, intimidated, controlled, codependent
Positive Properties: Empowered, clear boundaries, protected, courageous, independent, capable, proactive, integrity
Jasmine- Oil of Sexual Purity and Balance:
Jasmine encourages the release of sexual suppression or resistance due to traumatic experiences. Through its gentle, purifying nature, Jasmine brings forward unresolved sexual experiences and facilitates the healing process. Traumatic experiences can distort ones relationship with sexuality. Jasmine can assist both kinds of common compensations: those who fear, repel, or resist sexual experience, as well as those who obsess over or are fixated on sexuality. It is balancingfor those who use sex to fill a desperate need for love and approval, as well as individuals who resist sexual intimacy.
Negative emotions: Unresolved sexual issues, sexual repression or sexual fixation
Positive Properties: Healthy sexuality, pure intentions, innocent, healing, self-acceptance, intimate, trusting, safe
When we can forgive, either ourselves or others, it detaches us from the event that caused our trauma. This, in turn, allows us to move forward without the burden of working around the emotions we held on to. Creating a life that revolves around an emotion keeps us tied to that block in the energy flowing through our bodies. And when we have a block in one area, flow is increased to others,which keeps our bodies natural rhythm out of balance.
When we let go of guilt and blame and detach ourselves from the emotion of what we see, we begin to notice more detail, and that leads to more clarity. Forgiveness is not about releasing from the consequences of actions, it is about letting go of pain and beginning the process of healing.
From a chemistry standpoint, forgiveness allows nutrients to reorganize how energy is connected to the cytosine molecular structure that regulates how our genes express.